Soms is het begrijpelijk dat je die ene plek liever voor een andere zou willen verruilen. De blaffende honden van de buurman die je uit je slaap houdt, een zoemende mug in je tent of de dagelijkse reis met de trein naar je werk doet je terecht naar een andere plek verlangen. Maar doorgaans is dat niet de reden waarom je een andere woning zoekt, je baan opzegt of met de vrienden breekt. Je doet dat omdat je ervan overtuigt bent dat je elders meer vrede,bevestiging ,of kameraadschap zult vinden. Maar stel nu eens dat deze overtuiging door innerlijke onvrede wordt ingegeven? Dan zit je met je nieuwe huis,baan of vriendenkring algauw weer in het zelfde schuitje. Ik heb het aan de lijven ondervonden, dacht dat in een nieuw huis er wel meer vrede zou zijn.... dat was ook zo maar na 1 1/2 jaar kwam die zelfde onvrede weer terug en dan..... ?? dan ga je je huis verkopen en kom je tot de conclusie dat de onvrede bij onszelf lag en ga je uit elkaar.... Maar zie je het patroon waarin je gevangen zit niet , dan zul je constant blijven proberen je leven te veranderen of je omgeving anders in te richten. Jammer genoeg worden je innerlijke onrust en onvrede er niet mee verdreven. Misschien goed om daar eens bij stil te staan als de drang tot verandering weer eens de kop opsteekt.
Sometimes it's understandable that you would prefer to trade that one spot to another. The barking dogs of the neighbor that keeps you from your sleep, a mosquito buzzing in your tent or the daily trip by train to do your job Would desire you go to another place. But usually that's not why you're looking for another house, terminates your job or breaks with friends. You do that because your convinced you'll find more peace elsewhere, confirmation, or companionship. But suppose now that this belief is driven by inner discontent? Then you back in the same situation in your new home, job or friends. I've had that 5 years ago, thought it would have peace in a new home .... It was only after 1 1/2 years that same discontent back then ..... ?? What then.... you go to sell your home and you come to the conclusion that the dissatisfaction was with ourselves and we broke up .... But wen you do not see that you have to change the pattern in which you caught, then you will remain constantly trying to rearrange your life or your environment. Unfortunately, your inner restlessness and dissatisfaction will not disappear. Maybe its good to think about why there is a urge to change
With love
Sisanya.
Sometimes it's understandable that you would prefer to trade that one spot to another. The barking dogs of the neighbor that keeps you from your sleep, a mosquito buzzing in your tent or the daily trip by train to do your job Would desire you go to another place. But usually that's not why you're looking for another house, terminates your job or breaks with friends. You do that because your convinced you'll find more peace elsewhere, confirmation, or companionship. But suppose now that this belief is driven by inner discontent? Then you back in the same situation in your new home, job or friends. I've had that 5 years ago, thought it would have peace in a new home .... It was only after 1 1/2 years that same discontent back then ..... ?? What then.... you go to sell your home and you come to the conclusion that the dissatisfaction was with ourselves and we broke up .... But wen you do not see that you have to change the pattern in which you caught, then you will remain constantly trying to rearrange your life or your environment. Unfortunately, your inner restlessness and dissatisfaction will not disappear. Maybe its good to think about why there is a urge to change
With love
Sisanya.